Only Look Back at our Mistakes; Change & Move On

I have a confession to make.

I was still quite strong headed about it, holding grudges and feeling depressed over a long-overdue incident; over history for a long time…..

……It came to my senses lately that life is not as bad as I thought it would be. Even though the “transition” period and getting myself adapting to the changes were difficult, but I believe any difficult times will pass…..before you know it.

There are many ways of looking at an issue/ problem. At times when we are too into it, we just tend to overlook it or ignore the implicit meaning and consequences. But, when we take a breather, think over it calmly and understand the whole situation, it might be a different outcome; a different move to make. The challenges that we face, are the "tools" that were sent to only make us stronger and wiser.

All one needs is perseverance, emotional stability and patience to handle and sail through the storm. A fact is a fact and no one is able to change it, but this person can change his or her attitude to fit into the situation; for the better.

I would say my life has evolved twice in the past 10 months. I thought I’ve lost the person whom I most cared for. I thought I’ve lost interest in my career…

But…somehow, moving on is so much better. Changes do one good.

I didn’t lose anything (except for some tears), not at all. In fact, I’ve gained!

I’ve learnt to be even more independent and gotten back my freedom and lost time to make up for my desires. It was the extra time to spend with my family, friends and those whom I enjoy their company most and to do things that I love or have passion for.

I now have an opportunity to master even more skills; learn more from a good mentor. I would say, a chance to develop myself for a better future.

So, what happened wasn’t a loss to me.

Now is to aim and achieve my goal. Will I succeed?

We’ll see….What’s next?

Bottom line is: Never be angry at someone or something that caused you the short term misery. No grudges, no anger, temporary sadness (we are human after all). It is neither worth your time nor your strength. As long as the other party is happy with their life, we live ours to the fullest and cherish the current!