Bad Boys vs Good Boys

Why do bad boys get all the girls? That was the topic opened for discussion on the radio this morning.

Well, here is my two cents worth:

Bad boys somehow seemed to be more charming (physically or character wise), exciting, fun to be with, outgoing, daring, open and so on. I feel that some bad boys may be just the appearance that make them seemed to be one, but in actual fact, they might be a great good guy (responsible, honest, loyal, etc) deep down. And most of these men/ boys are taken or have a wedding band on their finger. =)

On the other hand, there are really bad boys around us. These are the people whom we feel comfortable, fun and exciting to be with. They seemed to be more daring in exploring – from doing silly stuff to those might injure others or oneself. But the thrill that they project and gets involve with or even the sweet words coming out from them, girls somehow fall for it. And it is exciting to be a playboy. They will two time a girl and their mind will be thinking of ways and reasons just to hide the skeleton in the closet. I don’t think they would ever get tired thinking of excuses. It is a challenge to them and men loves challenges, trust me. This same rule applies for why boys like bad girls?!

Good boys are more down to earth and not so daring. They won’t break rules and everything is by-the-book.

Bad boys are definitely great to be with and to be friends with but I don’t think it is quite appropriate to be a life-time partner. Good boys are probably those who are more homely, likes to have their own hobbies and nothing much ‘happening stuff’ happening.

So, which one do you want? Bad boys with a great whole flowery world or good guys who will take good care of you but with a slightly mundane life?

Life and God are fair. Someone can only have or choose one but not both.
(I would love to have BOB a.k.a Best of Both worlds, but I doubt it ever exist!)

If you have BOB, then you should thank your lucky stars and cherish whatever it is!

Cheers!